Whenever he approaches you, be in any way, and you fight things with your past remind him that you were created in the image and likeness of God and remind him also of the future that lies in you and he .
Your future is in heaven, next to the King of kings and Lord of lords, Jesus Christ.
His future is in the lake that burns with fire and brimstone.
Besides all this tell him that you are a creature under construction, God is still working and one day you will be all that the Lord dreamed you were. Think about it. - Elias Eloy